Something to share….. 
It all boils down to security at the end of the day. And it’s not about how many pair of shoes you buy for them, those have no long term value.
What really make them secure is not the money in your bank account. It’s the money you put into THEIR account, the number of your shops and houses under THEIR name. Even your insurance that is under THEIR name.
Furthermore, they may go one step further in helping you to secure your position in your parent family. So that you may inherit more in the future and thus benefit THEM indirectly.
A woman can tell you she is not money minded, not materialistic blah blah blah. But the moment you get her a diamond, or transfer a property under her name, she will probably do anything for you.
To them, whatever money that you earn is theirs. It pains them if you spend THEIR money on your own gagdet. It doesn’t matter if they are also working and have an income well more than yours. Your money is still THEIRS.
If you are managing your own money, you are actually managing THEIR money. Of course they have the right to THEIR OWN money!
If you have children, ALL YOUR MONEY is belong to them and the kids for their future in case you DIE!
This is the parasitic nature in them and they don’t even realise it.
However, some women are not like this.
Yeah, not all women are like that. The most important thing is fairness and equity. Mutual agreement between two instances, and feeling of trust and equal will be the answer. Men can be lousy at management, can be easily influenced at times, but not all men are always like that. What’s the meaning of being together with two different personalities: man and woman. Being together means ONE - that is one personality from union of both. That’s what we called “Couple”.
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September 20th, 2007 at 10:43 am
I think you pretty much sum up a realistic women in today’s world who wanted badly to not be on a losing edge. You can’t blame them either knowing how unreliable some guys could get. In the end, women just want to feel safe mentally and materialistically. Unfortunately, it doesn’t rock my boat. I guess it comes down to WHO you choose to spend the rest of your life with.
September 24th, 2007 at 2:53 pm
September 26th, 2007 at 5:03 pm
cheokyeen , i totally agree with u..
These days more and more unrealiable guys around..have to be carefull hehe
September 26th, 2007 at 5:05 pm
hehe But there is a catch here:
October 11th, 2007 at 5:50 pm
WOW.. u better choose carefully. Don’t really have that much of advice actually, coz well i’m in no position to judge. As an independent woman, i’ll definitely continue working for my business after i get married, so I reallllyy don’t think I’d need so much of my husband’s money for my personal savings. Here’s what I’d do, might sound a lil cliche, but hey at least i have the thought.
I’d save the household leftover cash to buy LV, Prada, Marc Jacobs dresses and bags everymonth. Kiddin.. I’d save the cash to buy insurance policy. HAHA