Aug 02

Sunset can never be complete without the loved one by your side

Its nice to enjoy the sunset view by the bay

Its our first experience together

Will miss this moment and hope for the next chance

Let it be one of our unforgetable memories

For this we became stronger

To pass through all the obstacles in life

To dream about the future

To be able to enjoy the view of sunset from our own balcony in the future

To have a wonderful lives together

And succeed with our dreams

May our love be eternal like the sun which rise and set always

For what we have gone through together

I will always love you and for you the only one I love

Pictures are taken from Balerang Bridge and Ex-Vietnam Army Camp in Batam Island, Riau Province - Indonesia. Time: 6.00pm to 6.30pm GMT +7. Taken with Canon Ixus 65.

written by surfnux

Jan 19

What you do to live happily? in Harmony and enough of needs? There are many ways to fulfil that.

Today I just felt like sharing one quotes with you all. The quote that I saw inside MRT on my way back today. Its an advertisement by Great Eastern for the financial planning. Got dragged into the meaning of the quote and think of it as a good one.

It says like this:

    “To always have plenty, never leave the rice bin empty”

Meaning based on my perception, to live in moderate and happily, you gotta make sure that your savings are always kept filled and never empty. Something like that. True ar? What you think of it?

written by surfnux

Dec 09

Today I would like to share something with you all. Its something about ‘mind’s jail’ or called as ‘penjara pikiran’ in malay. Hope this story brings good to all of our lives. :p The following story is translated from Indonesian language by me for better understanding of the meaning.

A grasshopper (named it A) is trapped inside a box.

One day, he managed to get out of the box. With full of joy, he hop around enjoying his escape.

On the way, he met another grasshopper (B). He looked at the B grasshopper in confusion on why that grasshopper can hop higher and further than him?
With curiousity he asked, “Why you can hop higher and further than me, while we are having not much difference on age and body size?”

The B grasshopper replied by asking, “Where do you live all this while? All grasshoppers that live freely in this environment can do as what I did.”

Then the A grasshopper realized that all this while, the box he trapped in is the cause of the difference.

Sometimes, as human, without our own notice, we did experience the same thing as the A grasshopper.
Bad environment, humiliation, past trauma, continuous failure, friend’s saying, tradition and all that caused us to be trapped inside the intangible box which unripped our potential.

We always believe purely to what destinied to us without thinking deep whether that something truly exists or whether we are so weak? Worse is when we often choose to believe others than to ourselves.

Did you know that an elephant which is so strong can be tied with rope on just a small pole? Elephant will feel itself unfree or trapped whenever something is tied on its leg. Although that “something” can just be a thin string.

As human, we are able to fight and will not easily just give up to what we are facing. Therefore, keep trying to reach all positive aspiration that we have reaced. There are sickness, tiredness, but if we have reached the top, all the sacrifices is surely paid. Basically, our lives will be much better if we live with our own way of thinking, not with the way that is chosen by others for us.

Source: e-mail

written by surfnux

Aug 05

Some old proverb say that Work hard first and enjoy later. In Malay: “Bersusah-susah dahulu, bersenang-senang kemudian”. hoho This is true. But I would like to add one more phrase in front of it and become: “Bersenang-senang dahulu, bersusah-susah kemudian dan bersenang-senang kembali”. In English it says Enjoy first, work hard later on, and lastly enjoy again. hoho How does it sounds to you all? I found this way is better. Of course the enjoy before the hard work is not too over the border line. Just a small enjoy like what I did right now and most of the time. hoho

First, make yourself comfortable and relax before facing the coming work load or pressure. Do not take too long to enjoy. Then you can start working hard and do it seriously with full effort. If you did the work seriously with the feeling of relax and calmness, it will sure helps a lot. That is my principle. After its all completed and the pressure is through and works are done, you can then continue to enjoy more and longer. hohoho That last part of enjoy is the best of all. :p Time to study…

written by surfnux

Apr 08

“Between stimulus and response is a space. In this space lies our freedom to choose our response. In these choices lie our growth and our happiness”
- Anonymous

Do more than exist – live
Do more than touch –feel
Do more than look – observe
Do more than read – absorb
Do more than hear – listen
Do more than listen – understand
-John H. Rhoade

written by surfnux